In my life I’ve had many hobbies and interests. In fact I’ve been asked more than once if I have ADHD. And out of everything I’ve studied, the most useful by far is learning about narcissism.
Since learning about narcissists, I see the world in a new light. I see how many problems are actually caused by narcissists. And can usually spot a narcissist before they cause me too much damage.
In my opinion this knowledge is worth more than all the gold in the world. Seriously!
Many wealthy and successful people have been cut down by narcissists. Including A-Listers and royalty. And their lives have been made a misery.
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They’ve lost half their fortune or more. Endured severe psychological harm. And their physical health also takes a hit. And at the end of it all, they haven’t a clue what really happened. Part of them believes the narcissists narrative that it was all their fault. Leaving them vulnerable for more of the same.
Freedom is worth more than money. What’s the point of having money without freedom? And as I’m sure you know, narcissists take your freedom. But that’s not all.
They take the essence of who you are. You lose touch with the people and things you love. And after a while you don’t even know who you are. You have no time or energy for yourself, because it was all focussed on the narcissist.
The narcissist demands to be the centre of your universe. And at the forefront of your mind at all times. Nothing less will do.
After a few years, most people are left a shell of their former selves. Their mental and physical health in decline. Unhealthy, anxious, and depressed. Their spark gone. But this CAN be reversed.
Learning about narcissism fast tracks your recovery. Yes you learn some harsh truths on the way. But they’re necessary for your long term well being.
You learn that things weren’t all your fault. What the narcissist was REALLY up to. And that you’re not so bad after all.
Armed with this knowledge, you’re better equipped to prevent this from happening again. You can spot the signs of a narcissist before they become too ingrained in your life.
Narcissists are pretty formulaic. And once you learn their behaviours, it’s fairly easy to predict what they’re up to, and what they might try next.
If you haven’t already, take the time to read my articles. I promise it will pay HUGE dividends throughout your life. Because no matter how happy and successful you are, a narcissist is always around the corner, ready to take it away.
Knowledge is power. And learning about narcissism sets you free. Free to become the person you’re supposed to be. Free to pursue your dreams. And free to discover what they are in the first place.
Please consider sharing my articles on social media to people you know. The more knowledge out there about narcissism, the less powerful they become.
If their powers are blunted, they’re forced to seek change. Most narcissists won’t change because they don’t need to. Their narcissism gets them what they want. Or at least they think it does. They consider it effective, so why change?
Learn as much as you can. And help spread the karma. We all share this beautiful blue ball called Earth. Let’s make it a better place for everyone. Learn, share, and show you care.
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Yes- Narcissists have dominated my World. My brother is one, and it took me forever to catch on to it. I had always had low self esteem , lack of Confidence, continual Fear. I wondered why I was different to everyone else, getting on with their lives, and here was me stuck in this despair that was my life. Then I met someone, ( I always thought I didnt deserve anyone), he Lived in Spain, and invited me to join him. Imagine the behaviour of my brother, he went nuts! I got called all the names under the Sun- fast foreward after I’d had the Space from him to realise what had been happening. Obviously he was beside himself that his ‘feed’was leaving him and had no one to take it all out on, and then I married the man I went to Spain with- and hes one too. Not as bad, but his whole family turned out to be similar. My life as an Empath- a bird that was trapped again.
Yes, he would have been upset to lose control of his “commodity”. I have a fairly similar story Sheelagh. Some of us seem to be magnets for narcissists. But don’t give up Sheelagh. Keep learning about narcissism, and keep working on yourself. Then you can break the cycle.