Ending a relationship with a narcissist is not like ending a “normal” one. Usually you have a fairly civilised chat, gain closure, and go your separate ways. And maybe stay…
Why Narcissists Treat People So Differently
The way narcissists treat different people in their lives is like night and day. To some people, the narcissist is the most wonderful person on Earth. They’re kind, caring, and…
Narcissists Team Of Helpers
As you’re probably aware, narcissists are transactional in their relationships. And don’t have friends and lovers for the sake of it. There’s always something specific to be gained. Sometimes several…
“You Do It” – The Control Challenge From The Narcissist
This is a guest post from Chrissy Snow… There are many mind games you will go through on the receiving end of a narcissists objective to control and suck you…
How Narcissists Use Weaponized Incompetence
Weaponized incompetence is where narcissists pretend they can’t do something, or they exaggerate their inability. Which forces someone else to take the reigns. Often their significant others. Weaponized incompetence may…
How Narcissists Create Toxic Environments
Not only do narcissists bring their own toxicity to the table, they surround you in it. And create toxic environments. This means that even when the narcissist isn’t physically present,…
How Narcissists Cause Cognitive Dissonance
Cognitive dissonance happens when you experience something that contradicts your core beliefs. Causing you to hold two conflicting views at the same time. People feel uncomfortable and confused during cognitive…
How Narcissists Get You Attached
Despite harsh treatment, many people become attached to narcissists. But once the dust settles at the end of a relationship, they see the light. And wonder what they ever saw…
The Secret Way Narcissists Physically Abuse You
This is a guest post by Chrissy Snow… Remember when you were little and there was that boy or girl in class who liked you and they would do annoying…
How Narcissists Keep Their Button On Control
This is a guest post by Chrissy Snow… It’s a beautiful feeling to be with your loved one and feel the comfort, affection and attention that comes along with a…