One of the main characteristics of narcissists is an inflated sense of entitlement. This is where they feel entitled to things others aren’t. For no reason other than it’s them.
The narcissist may not have done anything to deserve this entitlement. And they wouldn’t grant the same if the roles were reversed. But in their deluded mind, they’re entitled to special treatment. And that’s all there is to it.
Narcissists sense of entitlement drives many of their behaviours. And is one explanation why they lash out for no apparent reason. Because they can be filled with rage when they’re not put on a pedestal. And there’s many subtle and unusual things narcissists consider disrespectful.
Learning about narcissists sense of entitlement helps you understand them, and predict their behaviours. Here’s some of the things narcissists commonly feel entitled to…
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Narcissists Feel Entitled To Special Treatment
When a narcissist goes somewhere like a restaurant, they expect super human levels of service. And anything less may be met with hostility.
The narcissist naturally feels superior to their “hired help”. But also to the other guests. So they expect their superiority to be recognised by them going above and beyond the call of duty.
The narcissist doesn’t care if it’s impossible to treat all the customers how they demand. Because they’re not “regular” customers. They’re special. And everyone should acknowledge this.
This entitled mindset leads to unrealistic demands. And unreasonable behaviour, if these demands aren’t met. Which is why narcissists often explode over tiny issues. And make a huge deal over things most of us consider trivial.
At home, the narcissist may expect precedence over everyone else. And something as simple as handing a cup of tea to someone before them, may trigger them.
This may come out with a sudden “unexplained” rage. Or if they keep this rage hidden, they may punish you later instead. Even though you’ve no idea what you did wrong, or even that you did anything wrong.
Entitled To Exploit Others
Narcissists feel entitled to exploit others. And they often go by the mantra “It’s a dog eat dog world”.
Narcissists feel that if someone can be exploited, then they deserve it. And they justify this by considering themselves as doing them a favour. Because they must learn the hard way.
However, narcissists don’t keep this same energy when they’re being exploited. They’re the first to kick and scream when someone takes advantage of them. Because in their mind, this entitlement only works one way.
Entitled To Attention
If the narcissist is overt, then they may feel entitled to be centre of attention. At all times. No matter how many people are around, or what’s going on.
The narcissist may talk loudly and incessantly, fighting for the spotlight. Even if someone else warrants more air time. They don’t consider that other people want to be heard. And they might want to listen to someone else for a change.
If the narcissist doesn’t get attention, then they may play up and cause trouble. Because to most narcissists, negative attention is better than none.
Narcissists often cause a scene at other people celebrations. Because they can’t stand other people being in the spotlight. It’s their entitlement, so they take it by any means necessary.
Entitled To Be In Charge
Narcissists often feel entitled to be in charge. And boss people around as they see fit. Regardless of their merit.
Narcissists like the power that comes with leadership. But they often turn their backs on the responsibility that comes with it. They’re only entitled to the trappings.
Narcissists believe they’re the arbiters of right and wrong. And what they say, goes. No matter how self serving and outlandish it may be.
Entitled To Your Time
If you’re close to a narcissist, then they may feel entitled to your time, whenever they want it.
As you’re probably aware, most narcissists hate being alone. Because they have no one to validate them, and stop them from delving into the dark depths of their murky mind.
So they feel it’s the duty of people in their lives to provide them with company, whenever they need it. And in their mind, it doesn’t matter whether you’re tired, busy, or unavailable. They expect you to drop everything when they want your time.
This is why narcissists are often pushy when it comes to hanging out. And may not take no for an answer. They’re entitled to your time, and feel offended when you don’t give it.
Entitled To Your Money And Possessions
If you’re close to a narcissist, then they probably feel entitled to your money and possessions. And may take them without asking. Because in their mind, what’s yours is theirs.
However this sense of entitlement doesn’t swing both ways. And the narcissist isn’t happy if you to take their things. But they seem blissfully unaware of the hypocrisy of this.
Narcissists Feel Entitled To Promotions At Work
Narcissists often feel entitled to promotions at work. Even when there’s more qualified and deserving colleagues.
Narcissists feel that the top jobs are theirs by right. Regardless of how good they are at their job. So if they don’t get them, it’s like someone’s stolen from them.
They may bully the person who “took their job”. Nitpick over tiny “mistakes”. And generally making their life a living hell.
The narcissist may also cause trouble with their superiors for not recognising their brilliance. And make life difficult for everyone in the workplace.
I’ve even seen narcissists kick up a fuss for not receiving a promotion they never applied for. Because in their mind, everyone should have begged them to take it. Because they’re that damn good.
Final Thoughts
Narcissists believe that normal rules don’t apply to them. They’re entitled to the best treatment. And all the opportunities. Even if they’ve done nothing to deserve them.
They also feel entitled to take anything they want from their loved ones. Whether it’s their time, money, or possessions.
Narcissists are so self absorbed that they can’t see how biased they are towards themselves. And how unworkable their entitlements are in the real world.
So they kick up a fuss when they don’t receive the treatment they feel they deserve. Even if it’s practically impossible. Or unreasonable to expect. Which is another reason amongst many, why narcissists are so difficult to be around.
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