I firmly believe that narcissism is the most useful thing you can learn about. Even more useful than learning about Pythagoras Theorem and Algebra. And it will help you in almost every aspect of your life.
People may have wealth, good looks, and the world at their feet. But one narcissist can bring them down. In fact, if you’re doing well in life, you’re more likely to attract narcissists, hoping to cash in on your success.
Without knowledge of narcissism, most people are practically defenceless. They don’t realise that someone can play the loving partner for years. Whilst plotting your downfall. Or the caring “friend” you repeatedly help, who disappears during your time of need.
I sometime shudder to think how different my life would be if I never learnt about narcissism. And I may well have been snared again. Lord knows I’ve had some close shaves.
If you’re wondering whether it’s worth spending time learning about narcissism, I’m going to discuss all the benefits your knowledge brings. And I’m sure you’ll agree, they’re significant…
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Love Life
An obvious starting point is your love life. As you’re probably aware, narcissists play the nice “love bombing” act at the beginning of relationships. And play the role of your perfect partner. It’s only after they’ve drawn you in they reveal their narcissistic side.
When you don’t know about narcissism, it’s easy to make excuses for them. And assume they’re having a bad day, stressed, or responding to something you’ve done wrong. Allowing them to get away with abusive behaviour for years.
When you learn about narcissists, you realise that some people are prepared to play the nice act for months, even years. And lure you in with cohabiting, marriage and children to ensnare you.
Without knowledge of narcissism, it’s easy to become trapped, wasting years of your life on someone who frankly doesn’t care about you. Hoping they’ll mature and improve. But they never do.
With knowledge of narcissism, you’re able to make better judgements when you meet someone. And know the warning signs to look out for.
Friendships
It’s easy to waste your time investing in narcissist friends. Who only want to take from you.
We have a limited amount of time and energy. And if you’re spending it on toxic people, you have less available for good people.
Narcissists CAN be fun to be around. And you may want to retain some friendships with narcissists. But when know about narcissism, you keep things in perspective.
Armed with your knowledge, you understand they won’t be there for you in your moment of need. So you may realise it’s prudent not to invest too much time in them. And instead forge more friendships with people who have your best interests at heart.
Employment
In the world of employment, you’re bound to come across narcissists. And unfortunately you may be forced to spend large amounts of time with them.
Learning about narcissism helps you survive. You can learn tactics to get the best out of them. And learn how to prevent them from causing you too much damage.
An awareness of narcissism gives you choices. If you work for a narcissist boss, or there’s loads around, you may wish to change jobs. You know what you’re dealing with. And you know narcissists rarely improve their behaviours. So you don’t waste years living in hope that things will improve.
Business
If you’re engaged in business, then learning about narcissism may be vital to your success. Prospective business partners and people you deal with need to some integrity for things to run smoothly. If you can weed out the narcissists, you gain a big advantage.
And if you employ people, avoiding bringing narcissists into the team pays real dividends. You save time and energy fighting to solve staff conflicts and low moral. Plus you’re likely to reduce staff turn over. Because let’s face it, who wants to work in a team full of narcissists?
Mental Health
If you have a narcissist or two in your life, your mental health is bound to take a hit. Narcissists seek to dominate relationships using many underhanded ways. They may for example dish out subtle put downs, gaslight, and future fake.
These tactics take their toll on your mental health. And if you’re not aware of narcissism, you may fall for their blame shifting, and believe their bad behaviours are your fault. Further damaging your mental health.
Physical Health
Most people who’ve been in relationships with narcissists notice their physical health declines. And may age quicker than they should.
Narcissists are stressful to be around. And it’s likely your body is pumping out too many stress hormones for too long. This depletes your immune system, and causes many physical health problems.
Most people notice significant improvements in their physical health once they’ve reduced or eliminated narcissists from their lives. But without knowledge of narcissism, you’re more likely to let them stick around. Unaware of what they’re up to, and the damage they cause.
Final Thoughts
Narcissists may latch on to us in every area of our lives. And bring negativity with them. This can hold us back from achieving our goals. And reduce our health and happiness.
Learning about narcissism brings peace of mind. Because narcissists disturb this in many ways. They create havoc, then blame us. Causing suffering, confusion, and self doubt.
When you’re educated about narcissism, you understand what’s really going on. And see how the narcissist sets you up for arguments, blame, and chaos. This allows you to better deal with them.
Please continue learning about narcissists and narcissism. And help spread the word. Your life, and those you care about, are much better for it.
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