Whilst not all actors are narcissists, many are. That’s because the life of an actor is attractive to narcissists. And many of the skills acting requires are already in the narcissists arsenal.
Throughout history, actors are regularly exposed for bad behaviours. And in a fair chunk of cases, it’s because they’re narcissists.
Many famous actors engage in infidelity, and reckless behaviours. Such as drink and drug binges. And display narcissistic behaviours when their mask slips. But in the past, they were revered for their “bad boy” antics. Even though they were less than pleasant to be around.
Narcissists are almost tailor-made to be actors. And the lifestyle is almost a perfect fit for what they want. Which is why narcissists dominate the field.
Here’s why narcissists make good actors, and why acting is so attractive to them…
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Their Life Is One Big Act
Many narcissists take to acting like a duck to water, because their life is one big performance. Narcissists don’t have a stable sense of self. So they usually act, depending on what’s advantageous at the time. Genuine heart-felt feelings don’t come in to it.
The narcissist can pretend to be a conscientious worker in front of their bosses. Or a caring lover, when they’re trying to woo their next fling. Then quickly act in complete contradiction when the circumstances change.
Narcissists are walled off from their emotions to protect them from pain. Because if they don’t feel anything, then they can’t be hurt. But to compensate, they must fake emotions to fit in and to appear “normal”.
Years of faking their personas and emotions is ideal training for an actor. Many narcissists can cry on demand. And go through the entire spectrum of human emotions in the blink of an eye. They can play the villain, and they can play the hero.
Being able to display wildly different emotions and personas is a great asset for any actor. And it gives narcissists the edge over their more genuine counterparts, who must learn these skill from scratch.
Crave The Spotlight
Overt narcissists crave the spotlight. In fact they don’t feel right unless they’re centre of attention. So acting is their perfect foil.
Actors get paid for people watching them perform. And their audience is even assembled for them. Which is a win-win situation.
Actors are often put on a pedestal. And revered for their acting skills and their art. And narcissists love people looking up to them, and adoring them. In fact they need it.
Actors receive all the plaudits because they’re the face of the show. Despite their being many people working in the background. And narcissists have no problem taking the credit for other peoples work!
Like Working From A Script
To appear normal, many narcissists mirror others. And copy peoples mannerisms and words, and use them as their own.
Narcissists also steal stories and amusing anecdotes. And place themselves as the hero to impress others. So they used to working from a script.
Narcissists like scripts because they provide them with the blueprint for a personality. All they have to do is say the words, fake the emotions, and soak up the adulation. Perfect.
Are Charming When They Want To Be
To help them get what they want, most narcissists learn the art of superficial charm. And know what to say to flatter people and draw them in.
Being able to charm is vital in the acting profession. Because actors rarely get steady work. So they must regularly attend auditions, and schmooze their way into landing big roles.
Narcissists often charm others by becoming who they want them to be. In a romantic situation, narcissists often love bomb. They act as charming as possible. And work out what the other person wants from a partner. Then they pretend to be this person. And they can keep up this act for months, even years.
Being able to live as someone else is highly manipulative. And crazy when you think about it. But what better way is there to develop your acting skills?
Final Thoughts
People who aren’t narcissists and have a stable sense of self are disadvantaged in some ways when it comes to acting. Because they must discard their natural self to inhabit another character. And fight against their natural instincts. But narcissists don’t have this problem.
Narcissists are almost blank canvasses. And can flip their attitudes and opinions at the drop of a hat. So they don’t have an authentic self getting in the way.
But even if a narcissist isn’t an actor by trade, they’re still actors. It’s just that they don’t get paid for it. Not in the traditional sense.
In the real world, narcissists benefit from their acting skills by manipulating others. They reel in lovers they don’t deserve. Land top jobs they’re not qualified to do. And sponge off well meaning friends.
If you know someone who’s a narcissist, then it’s worth reminding yourself that they’re probably fine actors. Even if it’s not their job. And no matter what they say and how convincing they are, it all an act.
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