Comments on: Why Narcissists Cause Drama https://narcissisms.com/why-narcissists-create-drama/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=why-narcissists-create-drama A Blog About Narcissists And Narcissism! Fri, 12 Apr 2024 16:43:59 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: JonRhodes https://narcissisms.com/why-narcissists-create-drama/#comment-590 Tue, 23 Feb 2021 17:01:33 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=815#comment-590 In reply to Sharon good.

I obviously don’t know your situation too well Sharon, but narcissists sometimes act oblivious in an attempt to make you change your mind. My ex acted oblivious the day after I confronted her about her cheating, and told her I was leaving her. I think she was hoping that if she acted normal, I’d forget about the whole thing!

]]> By: Sharon good https://narcissisms.com/why-narcissists-create-drama/#comment-589 Mon, 22 Feb 2021 22:11:48 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=815#comment-589 i am taking the runup to the last hurdle, I’m starving the narc of any emotion & no contact (silent treatment) my stuff is packed & I sleep on the couch, it’s obvious, I don’t love him anymore & ready to go. He, on the other hand is in denial gets around like normal & seems oblivious to it all, I understand its a dangerous time for us both, the longer I stay the worse its getting, I know what’s in store & can’t stop it, he will end his life.

]]> By: JonRhodes https://narcissisms.com/why-narcissists-create-drama/#comment-576 Sun, 14 Feb 2021 08:13:30 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=815#comment-576 In reply to Michaela.

Yeh, drama’s a great deflection tactic for them. The snoring thing is a good go to as it’s difficult to disprove, and there’s not much you can do about it!

]]> By: Michaela https://narcissisms.com/why-narcissists-create-drama/#comment-574 Sat, 13 Feb 2021 20:37:46 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=815#comment-574 I painfully have discovered that the narcissist starts fights and drama when they do something wrong (flirting in your presence at an event) in order to avoid a serious discussion and put you on defense.
Mine did steal a considerable amount of valuables and was looking for objects in my drawers while I was asleep at night. If I woke up, he was complaining that he had to go sleep on the sofa because I was snoring (not true) or my wall electronic clock was making noise (crazy). He was making a fight so he could get away with stealing.

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