Comments on: Things That Annoy Narcissists

By: Anynoniums

Anynoniums — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 07:55:23 +0000

I am in the process of divorcing a narcissis after 18 years.and the he’ll uve lived.for 17 years everyone including myself thought he worshipped the ground I walked on.up till a year ago
When I realize my life is and had been nothing but a lie after lie.and screwing around Lord only knows how many how long even in my home.I am trying g to pick up the pieces if the life he destroyed as I watch everything in my lifetime dreams be sold or given away.amd just keep asking myself how did I not see this?peopke RUN if you cross paths with one
They are cons.save yourself.they will break you.no matter who you are
Plan evil.

By: Katalina Marshall

Katalina Marshall — Mon, 24 Aug 2020 23:14:04 +0000

In reply to Koi. In my experience, if you have to be around a narcissist or psychopath, the safest course of action is to do everything you can to ensure they remain indifferent towards you. If you accommodate them too much, they may become obsessed with you and take advantage of you ~ and you don’t want any close relationship with a narcissist, romantic, platonic, or professional. They WILL screw you over, and showing them kindness and understanding gives them an in-road to take advantage of your generosity and compassion. On top of this, you really don’t want the narcissist to hate you, because they form intense, seething grudges, and will stop at nothing to ruin things for you. If you can stay in the background of their life and not attract their attention, that’s the safest way to deal with them.

By: JonRhodes

JonRhodes — Mon, 24 Aug 2020 21:39:57 +0000

In reply to Koi.

How nice they are usually depends on your relationship with them. If they’re not too close and they want to impress you, then they may be OK. The problems usually arise when you get close to them.

Sometimes we have no choice but to interact with them. Like at work for example. If you can make it at least tolerable, then you’re doing well!

By: Koi

Koi — Mon, 24 Aug 2020 21:31:22 +0000

While I thought this article was apot on, I was a bit confused at the tone. I don’t want to work with or nor help myself to get along with a Narcissist. The ones I’ve been exposed to are abusive. I mean are there any nice ones?