Comments on: Narcissist’s Attitudes Towards Sex https://narcissisms.com/narcissists-attitudes-towards-sex/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=narcissists-attitudes-towards-sex A Blog About Narcissists And Narcissism! Sat, 13 Apr 2024 12:49:05 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Trisha https://narcissisms.com/narcissists-attitudes-towards-sex/#comment-501 Thu, 08 Oct 2020 23:16:19 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=488#comment-501 In reply to Maureen.

Yes, it seems that not even the golden rule applies to the narc because they think they’re “special” {insert sarcastic emjoi here}. I wouldn’t be surprised if the real reason he didn’t want you talking to your male friends because they would have given you a more healthy perspective on how a relationship should be. It’s good to know that you’re no longer with him. Life’s too short to allow toxic and draining people to remain in your life!

]]> By: JonRhodes https://narcissisms.com/narcissists-attitudes-towards-sex/#comment-500 Thu, 08 Oct 2020 12:52:27 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=488#comment-500 In reply to Maureen.

It’s better to be single and at peace, than controlled and unhappy in a relationship, eh Maureen?! Sound like you’ve got it sussed now. I hope you have a long and happy narcissist retirement!

]]> By: Maureen https://narcissisms.com/narcissists-attitudes-towards-sex/#comment-499 Wed, 07 Oct 2020 06:59:32 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=488#comment-499 Jon, you’ve described every potential narcissistic response possible, most of which I’ve been on the receiving end. My Ex was all about control, sometimes brutal control, and what, when, how and where. 20 years of every abuse, I’d had enough. First long-term boyfriend took interest in my desires, but there was no depth, no emotional connection. He was all about being a ladies man; so he chased and cheated. Of course, any challenge from me reverted to him accusing me of cheating, which I never did. I respect myself too much and live by the golden rule. My last boyfriend also showed zero heart connection. Sure he aimed to please in the beginning, then he got sick with one ailment after another. I was provider, transportation, nurse, cook, housekeeper, laundress, and gardener. There was zero intimacy. Communication was nil. He’d leave the room. His demeanor projected hatred/resentment toward me. When it became apparent that he was completely content with nothing but BJs and had no interest in me, I finally told him, “no”. BOOM! He exploded … broke stuff, called me the most vile names and loud enough for the neighborhood to hear. A gun came into play and that was the end all. 911. All three had addictive characteristics. Single in my golden years and at peace.

]]> By: Maureen https://narcissisms.com/narcissists-attitudes-towards-sex/#comment-498 Wed, 07 Oct 2020 06:14:19 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=488#comment-498 In reply to Trisha.

One boyfriend cheated on me more than I care to really know. Anytime I questioned his fidelity, he’d immediately began making up unfounded accusations. I never once cheated on him. Heck, I couldn’t even talk to male friends without being accused.

]]> By: Trisha https://narcissisms.com/narcissists-attitudes-towards-sex/#comment-497 Tue, 06 Oct 2020 14:42:06 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=488#comment-497 I’ve also heard in another article that a narcissist often has a double standard with regards to sexual fidelity; they’ll blatantly cheat but God forbid that their significant other even looks sideways at another man or woman!

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