Comments on: How To Stay Calm When Dealing With A Narcissist https://narcissisms.com/how-to-stay-calm-when-dealing-with-a-narcissist/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-stay-calm-when-dealing-with-a-narcissist A Blog About Narcissists And Narcissism! Fri, 12 Apr 2024 18:14:47 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: JonRhodes https://narcissisms.com/how-to-stay-calm-when-dealing-with-a-narcissist/#comment-528 Fri, 13 Nov 2020 17:44:24 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=514#comment-528 In reply to Jess.

It must be awful for you Jessica. Narcissists usually respond better when there’s compliments thrown in or implied, such as “I only want to spend my weekend with you.” It might not work, but could be worth a shot.

]]> By: Jess https://narcissisms.com/how-to-stay-calm-when-dealing-with-a-narcissist/#comment-527 Thu, 12 Nov 2020 13:40:02 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=514#comment-527 So my narc loves to push and pullback, like you say, get me to the brink, then down me for my sour behavior or the fact that I love “conflict” and “he won’t deal with it” threats, then tell me that there is no one he loves more than me. His latest is he is having his friend come in this weekend who is a horrible human being. I met him a year ago and he flirted with me crossing respect lines, did cocaine the entire visit and drank heavily while not looking after his two disabled children and then he wanted to “show me a martial arts move” grabbing my wrist really hard and hurting me. So J announces that he is coming in and staying this weekend without and talk with me about the fact that it takes away any alone time we have together since he has his son who is 6 every other weekend. A/ I do not want to be around his loser friend and B/my feelings are hurt that once again he has no consideration of my needs or if doing this to me would threaten how I feel about our relationship. There is no talking to him about it because he stonewalls me and then gives me the silent treatment.

]]> By: JonRhodes https://narcissisms.com/how-to-stay-calm-when-dealing-with-a-narcissist/#comment-516 Mon, 02 Nov 2020 22:05:26 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=514#comment-516 In reply to Jean.

You’re welcome Jean

]]> By: Jean https://narcissisms.com/how-to-stay-calm-when-dealing-with-a-narcissist/#comment-515 Mon, 02 Nov 2020 21:41:35 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=514#comment-515 Very helpful advice thank you

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