Comments on: How Narcissists Gaslight https://narcissisms.com/how-narcissists-gaslight/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-narcissists-gaslight A Blog About Narcissists And Narcissism! Thu, 18 Apr 2024 14:44:24 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: JonRhodes https://narcissisms.com/how-narcissists-gaslight/#comment-370 Sat, 16 May 2020 18:35:26 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=307#comment-370 In reply to Rachel.

Congratulations on your freedom Rachel! With a positive mindset, every day will get better and better, as his influence shrinks into the past. Enjoy your future!

]]> By: Rachel https://narcissisms.com/how-narcissists-gaslight/#comment-368 Sat, 16 May 2020 18:02:37 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=307#comment-368 This is the best most accurate article I’ve ever seen on it . Yes we all know about gaslighting but your examples are spot on and hit nail on head for me . Every single one . I’m in therapy also he’s been arrested due to serious crimes against me and is out on bail . Best I’ve seen esp what you say and do . It got bad at end . I thought I had been drugged or something . Telling me I was rude and racist ( he was ) and was nowhere near me could tell from my “ body language “ that ppl talked about me behind my back hot and cold and it only gets worse and more frequent the more you take them back after . He used to have to grovel to get me back but then again and again . Finally asked for his rings back inc engagement but I already decided no more control got legal advice and he got nothing back ! I’m
Free

]]> By: JonRhodes https://narcissisms.com/how-narcissists-gaslight/#comment-333 Sun, 03 May 2020 17:38:21 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=307#comment-333 In reply to Jax Olsen.

Thanks Jax. I think many gaslight as a consequence of their behaviour. Reckless gaslighting I suppose. For instance denying they took money from you.

But when they do it deliberately to mess with your mind, then it’s pretty bad intentions. Moving your stuff is a very premeditated way of playing with your mind!

]]> By: Jax Olsen https://narcissisms.com/how-narcissists-gaslight/#comment-332 Sun, 03 May 2020 10:41:17 +0000 http://narcissisms.com/?p=307#comment-332 Very nice piece on gaslighting. Very accurate and good analogies based on this form of manipulation to condition you info their controlling nature.

My ex female narc wife would actually deliberately move items around or hide car keys and wallets etc. Then accuse me of being forgetful and needing her help in order to not be so dumb and correct the memory issues apparently had. Today, I know what the real deal ism ive always put car keys wallet and essential items all together in one place
… always.

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