Thank you I am trying to get away from him as soon as I can. I try to ignore him as much as possible. He used to get me riled up so bad.

It sounds like you handled it in the best way Connie. If you had argued with him, you’d have been stressed out. And he’d have learnt a new way to provoke a reaction from you. So he would keep doing it. Calmly asking him how, then moving on is about as best you could have done!

It’s also clear that you didn’t take his accusation seriously. So I’m guessing you don’t feel guilty and aren’t running around trying to appease him. Grey rock!

Yes, I think it’s because we start to see through their humour after a while. I actually haven’t done a specific article on red flags Rachel. I have written one about why we often ignore the red flags. (http://narcissisms.com/why-do-we-ignore-narcissist-red-flags) But not about the red flags themselves. I’ll get to work!